The Passing of a Legend-Felix Abisheganaden

Another recent passing which thoroughly saddened me was that of Mr. Felix Abisheganaden.

I first met Mr. Felix during my first assignment with his PR firm, Prestige Communications back in October 2002. I didn't talk to him much then, but I was aware of this cheerful man who managed to elicit a smile or laugh from everyone he spoke to.

I was later asked to photograph his 80th birthday party held at Holiday Villa Subang in January 2003. 80?????? He looked at least 20 years younger, and I couldn't mask my surprise that this amiable smiling man would be 80 years old.

That night, he was the life of the party. His children, relatives & family came from near and far to pay homage to this charismatic man. I was amazed by the number of loved ones who traveled hundreds and thousands of miles to celebrate this joyous occasion. What I could not forget was the huge beam he had on his face for literally the whole night. Looking at him, I made a promise to myself to live my life fully, and hope that one day I too, will be surrounded by all the warmth and love I witnessed that night.

The following years, I met Mr. Felix on and off during Prestige's assignments, and each time we met, he always made a point to greet me and ask how I was. And always, there was a huge smile on his face.

I went to pay my respects when he passed on. Once more, I witnessed friends and relatives from all around the world surrounding him. Through the grief and sadness, however, there was still so much love for him in the room. And at that point I knew that wherever he was, Mr. Felix still had that huge beam on his face.

Mr. Felix, may you rest in peace.